Realizing your loved one excluded you from receiving an inheritance through their will or trust can be devastating. In addition to mourning the loss, you may experience different emotions. You may be confused, sad and angry about their decision.
But what should you do? Here are four things to consider:
1. Acknowledge your emotions
Acknowledge your feelings and allow yourself to grieve. Do not feel guilty for being emotional because you were disinherited. It can be painful because it may symbolize a broken relationship, something you might not have imagined.
2. Understand why you were disinherited
After coming to terms with the situation, you need to obtain more information. Your loved one might not have provided the reason for disinheriting you, as this is not a legal obligation in Ohio. However, some people clarify their reasons for disinheriting someone. If this is the case, get more information from the executor. If not, you can meet with your family to gather details that might help you understand your loved one’s decision.
3. Know your rights
Learn more about your rights to determine the next suitable steps. For instance, a surviving spouse cannot be entirely disinherited through a will in Ohio; they can choose to receive a portion of the estate up to one-third of the net estate. A minor child cannot be disinherited, either.
An adult child cannot be disinherited by simply excluding them from a will. The will should clearly state that they have been intentionally excluded. Absent this, a child can receive a share of the estate.
Getting more information about your rights and options can help you avoid costly mistakes.
4. Focus on self-care
Consider going to therapy, exercising, focusing on your hobbies and other self-care activities to protect your emotional well-being.
Being disinherited can be challenging. Legal guidance can help you understand the best way to handle the situation while minimizing conflict within your family.
